Health is not always a reflection of your size.
I completely understand the insatiable want Americans have to be smaller in size. It's a huge part of our culture and we tend to equate thinness with healthiness. In reality, it would be much healthier for you per se, to be a little too chunky as opposed to being a little too skinny. People should want to weigh less for health reasons and not just to "look skinnier". My hope is for people to want to be healthier and if they truly want that, they will be happy with whatever size their body is meant to be.
This is Sofia Vergara, a Columbian model and one of the stars of the television show, Modern Family. I love that she's absolutely stunning... and average sized. |
You want what you can't have... so, let yourself have it.
Being healthy is a lifestyle. Have you ever heard of the idea about eating 80/20? Eat healthy 80% of the time and unhealthy 20% of time. I love this concept because completely restricting yourself ultimately leads to failure. Have you ever craved, lets say, ice cream and forced yourself to turn it down? Days pass... and inevitably the craving gets stronger and stronger until you pull a container of ice cream out of the freezer and almost as suddenly as you realize what you're doing, you've downed half the container. We can avoid situations like that. Avoidance makes you want whatever that "thing" is more, especially when we're talking about food. It's human nature. So, don't avoid the ice cream. When you have a strong craving you should satisfy it, so you are better able to approach the food in moderation and avoid bingeing.
This is a HUGE topic that I hope to delve much deeper into. I hope to open up your mind to the importance of recognizing the difference between a "diet" and a lifestyle. A "diet" essentially only lasts a short amount of time and it will never, ever leave you satisfied. A lifestyle is set up to give you pleasure while you're on your pathway to your goal, and not just to give you a fleeting feeling of pleasure with your end result.